I was on a mission the other day. I HAD to find my wedding dress before the end of the weekend. I was feeling the pressure and running out of time.
There was a dress I wanted. It was the ONLY dress I liked and I had to get it.
Can you already feel the pressure and crazy focus here?
So, I found the store the dress was located. I called right away to get an appointment, however, I was told there were no available appointments left since it was the weekend. I tried to wiggle my way in, but it was a no-go.
But if anyone knows me, I don’t quit. Especially when I really want something. (hint: really want it)
The next day, I drove all the way to Costa Mesa (about an hour drive from where I live) and walked into the store. I went straight to the lady at the desk and asked if there were any available appointments for the day and, again, I got denied.
She apologized and said they were completely booked and, if I wanted to, I could be put on the wait list. I would be number five on the list.
I then asked, “What are the odds of me getting in today?”
Her reply, “Um…well, honestly, pretty impossible.”
I then looked at her, smiled, and said “I will be here today. I promise you, it will happen. You will be calling me in.”
She looked at me like I was crazy.
Yeah, maybe that was crazy to say but, guess what happened?
I got the call.
Their voicemail said, “Wow, guess what…this never happens, but we actually had a cancellation and none of those before you on the waitlist could come. So please give us a call.”
I showed up, tried on what I wanted and said “Yes, to my dress” and, but the way, it was no surprise.
It’s called manifestation baby.
I had two things going for me which made me certain I was GOING TO GET WHAT I WANTED.
1. I had mad focus. I was not taking no for an answer. I had already made up my mind that I was going to get in there and get that dress that day no matter what. I had DECIDED and was FOCUSED ’cause I REALLY WANTED IT.
2. I had DECIDED I was WORTHY of getting what I wanted.
Most of us don’t get what we want ’cause we don’t want it bad enough. When you want something badly enough, it’s all you focus on. It means you are putting massive energy into this desire.
Sometimes we don’t put enough focus (energy) ’cause we don’t believe it’s possible. You see, even though she said it was impossible, I refused to accept that and, had already decided IT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN ’cause I REALLY WANTED IT.
This is some powerful shiz here.
The other reason why we don’t get what we want is due to not believing we are worthy of it. I knew I was worthy and deserving of having that dress, that appointment, not matter what. I was CERTAIN of that.
This my peeps, is the power of manifesting to the max.
If you are not getting what you want, then check in with yourself and ask…
1.Do I really want it? If not, then are you not believing with every single cell of your body that you can have it? You’v got to make a decision and commit to it until you get it. You’ll know when you really want something and have truly decided on it when NO is not an option. It means you are fully committed to getting what you want.
2. Do you believe you are worthy of it? You’d be surprised how this is a sneaky belief we carry that trumps all our efforts of trying to get what we want.
Most of us deeply feel unworthy. No one but your own self can tell you what you can or can’t have.
It’s all up to you. You have the power. It’s within you.
Truly want it and know you are Worthy of it and, you’ll have whatever you want.
Now go make it happen
And, always remember to be you, to be real and to be bold.
PS. What do you truly want in life? And, how much do you believe that you could have it and are worthy of it? Share your thoughts below.