Aren’t You Tired Of Not Believing In You

Let me ask you something…are you seriously happy with what you have? With what you’ve accomplished? With what you’ve created in life? Happy with who you are? Some serious questions right? Yeah, but necessary if you want to rise above your circumstances. If you want to see the world, and experience it the way Spirit intended it for you. Not by playing small, not by accepting the unhappy, unfulfilled life you TRY to make comfortable for yourself. The one you tell yourself, “it’s not that bad.” REALLY?!! I mean, if you have to convince yourself then somethings is off. NO??!!!
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Why We Repeat The Same Pain Over and Over again…

The heart…it hurts sometimes, doesnt it? You could honestly, truly feel the pain. The whole body shuts down, your mind is confused, wondering how you got here. How did you end up here, over and over again, feeling the same pain? Why this life of sadness and regret? I understand. It’s so painful, you feel like crawling into bed and staying there for hours, days, weeks maybe years. Sometimes you just want to run away from the ones you love, and even the ones who you THINK don’t love you or care for you. It’s in these dark moments one
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Why We Wake Up Feeling Blue

For years, I would wakeup feeling blue, bored, unmotivated to get out of bed. I mean, I had a job, yes, but I wasn’t feeling it. It wasn’t like I hated it but it didn’t lift me up. It’s not like I was excited and pumped to get my day started. Has this happened to you or is happening now? I felt like there was something more for me.   I didn’t know what I wanted to do but I knew the woman I wanted to be.. Self-reliant, independent, successful, confident, going places, making s*hit happen, feeling empowered, creating impact
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How My Birthday Wish Came True

It was my birthday and I was surrounded by all my girls at a beautiful restaurant in Manhattan Beach, CA. The waiter placed the cake in front of me, with the candles flickering and, the words, Happy Birthday, Mabel elegantly handwritten on it. All the girls shouted “Make a wish and, make it big”. I closed my eyes and asked my heart what it wanted. The message came through “To travel” I made my wish and blew out the candles. Immediately, the girls asked me what I wished for and with no fear, with no supersititon, I openly shared my
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Accept The Invitation

When will you accept the invitation? What? You don’t know what I’m talking about? Of course you do…Well, at least your soul does. See the pic up there at the top of this blog? The one with me sitting in the middle of the road meditating? Yep, that one. It’s one of my favorite pics. I have it up against my living room wall and on my vision board. One of my greatest epiphanies came to me in that exact moment and, I’ll never ever forget it. It lives in my heart forever, it’s the reason why I’m here, why
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Why Your Partner Is Doing You A BIG Favor When He/She Pisses You Off

Okay, So I’m about to get real and personal. I’m doing this ’cause I know many of us go though the same issues in life, having the same human experiences and, learning similar lessons. About two weeks ago, my husband asked me what I wanted for Christmas. I said “A leather jacket”. I had a feeling he was going to ask me so I ran out to the mall and tried on a bunch of jackets to see which style and brand I liked best. I then handed him a piece of paper with the name of the sales person,
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You ALREADY Have What It Takes To Make Your Dreams Come True

There are moments when you will doubt your dreams, your desires, your ideas. Those juicy amazing thoughts of what you’d really like to be doing with your life. Sometimes these ideas are fleeting, but they still come and visit you. It’s the stuff you think about that lights you up. It’s the stuff you see others doing and you say to yourself, “Wow, that’s cool. That would be awesome if I could do that too. It’s the stuff that makes you have a Kool-Aid smile even if it’s just for a second. Yeah, that… that’s what I’m talking about and
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Stop Using Distractions As An Excuse

Distractions..Ugh I hate them, but like them at the same time. I can’t help myself at times. I use them ’cause it’s like a hit, a quick fix to get me out of feeling guilty for not doing what I’m really supposed to be doing in order to get ahead in life. You KNOW what distractions I’m talking about. The ones that disguise themselves as the things we THINK we need to do. The stuff we put way ahead of what’s REALLY IMPORTANT, like the stuff that WILL create the lives we so crave. Cleaning the house, checking our email,
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Embracing The Dark

If I had to choose one thing that truly allowed me to love me, to accept me, to be me and to honor all of me and step fully into my power, then it would have to be that… I embraced the dark side of me We ALL have a dark side to ourselves. We all have negative and positive traits within us and at times, the negative likes to come out and play. This is universal. However, we do have the power to choose which traits to display but, at times, it’s spontaneous and, that’s okay too. We’ve all have
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Why We Feel Like We Don’t Fit In

  I recently went to an event in Los Angeles, hosted by Angeleno Magazine. I have always been a fan of Angeleno and, have always imagined myself being there, having my photo taken with the cool backdrop and bright lights and, hanging out with glamorous people. I have not gone out to an event like this since I left the party scene many years ago. I took time out of the scene to reconnect with my truth. I reconnected to the girl I lost years ago, the year I hid long ago because I felt she wasn’t good enough. I
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